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Data from: Asian American women marry out at 36% versus that of 16% for Asian men. 7% for whites ( M/F) , 25%/12% for blacks ,and 54%/61% for American Indians. In the 2017 study , the intermarriage rates has now changed. These out marriage rates and statistics only give half the picture though; they do not quantify how difficult it is for an Asian man to actually land a white girl.
Now 21% of Asian men intermarry , while 36% of Asian women intermarry , which represents a 5% increase and a 1% decrease among the respective genders. We can talk all day about our personal experiences and stupid “field reports” for all the PUA’s out there, but at the end of the day all of this is subjective.
The simple “numbers” explanation, such as that given by Kira, was belied by other reasons offered; for most of the women, not surprisingly, t Stereotypes do have a legitimate effect on the relationships that Asian Men are a part of. In contrast to the women who frequently alluded to the nerdy qualities of Asian males as reasons for these men’s undesirability, interracially married Asian American men in my study rarely mentioned explicitly the physical shortcomings of Asian females as reasons for not marrying or dating them.
Despite what people may say , or excuses that may be brought up , the hegemonic masculinity that is a part of American society , and it’s penalties on Asian men affect the real lives of Asian men. However, men who grew up finding non-Asian women, especially white ethnic women, more desirable did tend to elevate white females as paragons of ideal femininity in terms of physical appearance, and even personality and character.
In general, my finding is that inter-racially married second-generation Asian American men generally fell into a category of those who engaged in a strategy of either “denial” or “compensation” in regard to dominant American masculinity ideal.
That is, they, though not all, tended to be “compensators,” highly assimilated individuals who saw themselves as people who either transcended the negative Asian male stereotype by trying hard to achieve the hegemonic masculinity, or “deniers” people who did not believe that negative stereotypes existed or that these stereotypes applied to themselves since they were really “white.” Such assimilative tendencies often went hand in hand with a desire for women of the dominant group in society, white females, whose approval provided these men with a sense that they are successfully approximating the American middleclass hegemonic masculinity and winning societal acceptance.
Thanks to the intermingling of technology and dating, there is irrefutable evidence that in modern American society, races and genders do not mix in harmoniously colorblind fashion.
With black women and Asian men always being the ones left out, the common musing has been, ‘Well, why don’t they just hook up with each other? my personal life is of any relevance, then yes, I’ve dated black women before, both in America and in Asia.
I remember going to a old-fashioned running the place would treat us.She came to a tongue-in-cheek conclusion that black women and Asian men should therefore get together.For anyone familiar with racism in the social arena, the issues raised in Rae’s commentary are nothing new or even radical.Although you may not think so , media projects an image that influences those watching.What influences both sexes to marry inter racially?