Dating for big guys and girls

I don't mind if you tend to date fat girls, or really even if you get some specific pleasure from being with a fat woman -- but I don't need that to be the first thing you tell me about yourself. " It's announced as if it's supposed to reassure me that they aren't going to take one look at me naked and run, I think? Or maybe it's meant to suggest some kink; like to let me know that he wants to feed me cakes and watch me weigh myself? If you care more about my weight than I do, we're going to have a problem. "You're not the kind of lazy, stupid, disgusting, [insert sizeist insult here] slob who I expect fat people to be," is not a compliment.

Whether or not fat hatred is malicious, it's still harmful.

Check your own issues with fatness before telling me to check mine.

I don't know what the motivation is for guys who try to get me on their shoulders at concerts or attempt to lift me gently into bed.

I grew up in one of the seventeen cities in the United States named Rochester (Wikipedia, 2015).

” didn’t become frequently asked questions until I began attending school at Towson University (TU) as a freshman.