Dating a newly divorced woman
But I for one, think being divorced can actually be a stamp of awesomeness to we men willing to look past the stigma. Hell, even George Clooney couldn’t make his first marriage work. You know it’s better to be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong.
That it doesn’t just magically take care of itself, and float along in a some happy, pink cloud surrounded by unicorns and cotton candy.You know that both parties have to commit to supporting each other and making compromises on a daily basis. Maybe you’ve recognized that you’ve made a mistake–either in your own actions, or simply by marrying someone who was making a lot of mistakes. Maybe you were the one who walked away, and now know what “Mr.This, too, means you’ll have a more realistic and mature approach to your future relationships. You had the balls (irony intended) to walk away from something that wasn’t working. And isn’t afraid to face some public scorn in the process. And that’s incredibly valuable for your future partners in life, because you’re clearly humble enough to accept criticism and question yourself. You probably now have a deep knowledge of what sexually satisfies you (and what doesn’t). Wrong” looks like, so you’ll better able to spot “Mr. You know what it’s like to watch love slip away, and you’re more able to keep it from happening again, to have the tough conversations that need to happen. You’ve suffered pain and loss, so you value joy and happiness more than those who’ve never lost it. Because there are those of us who find you all the more appealing for the battles you’ve won & lost.A female friend of mine got divorced recently, and confessed to me how much she dreaded now having the “divorced” label hanging over her head as she re-entered the dating pool, like some modern day version of the scarlet letter. You took a swing at love, rather than just playing it safe on the sidelines.That she, too, had failed to make it work, and men would recoil from her in disgust, running for the nearest 20-something as soon as possible. That’s an attractive trait to men looking for a worthy partner. You placed a bet in the lottery of life, and while it didn’t work out, you can dust yourself up and try again.